|community building and child/family involvement||<– Date –> <– Thread –>|
|From: Anne L. Varberg (Anne.L.Varberg-2tc.umn.edu)|
|Date: Fri, 29 Nov 1996 22:08:16 -0600|
I've been enjoying the posts here for a few weeks now and am intrigued with the co-housing concept. Can any of you point me to some resources for building community in one's present living situation? I've seen web pages for a couple of urban setting co-housing communities and have read some off the libertynet pages. I can't see our family getting involved in (or being truly committed to) a start-up co-ho project when we havn't yet made a significant effort at building community where we live now. Does this feeling make sense to the rest of you? What did you do/try before going the co-ho route? Can you offer some suggestions? On or off-list responses would be fine-whatever you feel is appropriate. Can't really tell if this is on-topic for the list or not.... On the second topic, it's my feeling that parents can be encouraged to involve their children in their own community work tasks - the parents would know their kids' abilities best. It becomes a different challenge as the kids become young adults. Perhaps the community needs to recognize their growing maturity in a symbolic/ceremonial sort of way, like when they enter Jr High or Middle School they choose which committee/work area to be a part of, and a committee member (other than a parent) could mentor the young adult. I think it is so wonderful that these communities have been so successful that they are going on their second generation! That is exciting! I think it is sad if parents are not encouraging their kids to take part in the life of the community that they helped to build for their kids. Watching tv or playing Nintendo instead of gardening or baking? Very sad. Anne in Minneapolis (Folwell Neighborhood in North Minneapolis)
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