|Re: Takoma Village Has a Clean Commonhouse!||<– Date –> <– Thread –>|
|From: Michael D (ohanamdearthlink.net)|
|Date: Fri, 30 Nov 2001 13:11:01 -0700 (MST)|
> My style is to make suggestions and to educate I realize that I'm not following my own suggestion right now, and I think that, especially in person, it's a good idea to always ask people if they want a suggestion or to learn something before you give it to them. If they don't want it, then consider if it's really important anyway (for safety, to prevent damage, or something like that). If so, be willing to accept the consequences of being thought of as controlling or whatever, even if what you're saying is for the best. Remember that most people will hear what you say through the filters of their childhoods. When the kind of thing you're describing happens in a community, I think a community therapist is extremely helpful. And, as don Miguel Ruiz teaches, don't take anything personally. There may be some valuable information in what people say, but don't take it as truth about who you are. Namaste, Michael Heart Song Community Santa Fe, NM ohanamd [at] earthlink.net http://www.delphi.com/thisismylife/messages http://groups.yahoo.com/group/HeartSongCommunity http://groups.yahoo.com/group/TheHeartoftheMatter http://groups.yahoo.com/group/QuotationsforConsciousLiving http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AQuestionofIntimacy http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PrayersfromtheHeart --- Outgoing mail is certified Virus Free. Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). Version: 6.0.303 / Virus Database: 164 - Release Date: 11/24/2001 _______________________________________________ Cohousing-L mailing list Cohousing-L [at] cohousing.org Unsubscribe and other info: http://www.communityforum.net/mailman/listinfo/cohousing-l
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- Re: Takoma Village Has a Clean Commonhouse! Michael D, November 30 2001
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