Re: Re: ASSOCIATE MEMBERS IN ADJACENT HOMES
From: Sharon Villines (sharonsharonvillines.com)
Date: Thu, 4 Aug 2005 19:42:50 -0700 (PDT)

On Aug 4, 2005, at 9:09 PM, Kirk or Esther Mueller wrote:
on bike or on foot. It's kind of a capitalist (I own it -- keep out) versus socialist (it belongs to all of us, to share, from our position of plenty) thing. I don't walk thru the trespassers backyard, why is it OK for them to walk thru mine (a capitalist view).

Sharing means sharing equally. Work as well as usage. When you do the maintenance and they do the taking, that is not sharing. Some would even say it is codependent -- you are encouraging a dysfunctional relationship. It's important to help others learn respect and responsbility.

(exaggerated for emphasis)

Sharon
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Sharon Villines
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