Re: Collaborative Marketing
From: Elizabeth Magill (
Date: Sat, 30 Jan 2010 11:13:43 -0800 (PST)
1) We also have had people join right after a contentious meeting. People said that it is obvious after such a meeting that we'll be able to work out whatever problems we face in the future.

2) While I agree with the "sell community" sentiment, I think the request was for ideas of how to get people to whom you can "sell community".

When you say that, what things are you thinking of that will get people to a supper or a meeting, or a community event?

Where it's all about community, which happens to take place in a neighborhood where homes are still available.

On Jan 30, 2010, at 12:28 PM, Michael Barrett wrote:

Perhaps even more than Rob I advocate selling the community more than the
real estate.

But I was more intrigued by the paragraph below cut from his email .

----- Original Message -----
From: "Rob Sandelin" <floriferous [at]>
To: "'Cohousing-L'" <cohousing-l [at]>
Sent: Saturday, January 30, 2010 11:47 AM
Subject: Re: [C-L]_ Collaborative Marketing

Another side of this was a group who invited new members to their business meetings, which at that time were difficult and contentious. Many many people never came back for a second look because all they saw was the hard stuff and they never saw any of the community relationship side of why we

Rob Sandelin
Sharingwood, Snohomish, WA

In the forming days of my previous community (before any construction was
begun), we not infrequently had first time visitors to our bi-weekly
meetings - which had both business and social content. They often were complete strangers to cohousing, and sometime we felt awkward that, when the meetings got contentious and/or emotional, we were exposing our visitors to our "less socially acceptable" side. Yet after the business meeting the visitors would very frequently comment on how moved they were by the frank expression of opinions and emotions and particularly by the gentleness and
respect that they were afforded.
More than one found this to be a very positive and attractive aspect of that
forming community.

Michael Barrett
Shadowlake Village,
Blacksburg, VA  - where the kids are enjoying the snow that Muriel has
already reported.

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