|Advice on resolving conflicts||<– Date –> <– Thread –>|
|From: Fred H Olson (fholsoncohousing.org)|
|Date: Tue, 23 Feb 2010 19:35:20 -0800 (PST)|
This message was posted by Fred, the Cohousing-L list manager <fholson [at] cohousing.org> for a person in a long established cohousing community who wishes to keep the specifics anonymous on the list. -------------------- FORWARDED MESSAGE FOLLOWS -------------------- We have an individual with whom I have trouble relating and I think other community members do also. We have not been successful in dealing with this situation. It seems like "resolutions" to specific conflicts have not adequately dealt with emotional aspects and that people come away harboring bad feelings about each other. I am aware of the circle process but we have not succeeded in using it effectively - it requires preparation and time that we have not been able to devote to it. Does anyone have suggestions for steps we can take? Or for a list of consultants that we could engage ( we would need someone local to minimize cost but I do not want to reveal my location...)
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