|Dealing with a difficult community member||<– Date –> <– Thread –>|
|From: SweetSoulDreamin (SweetSoulDreaminaol.com)|
|Date: Mon, 16 Aug 2010 10:13:06 -0700 (PDT)|
Hi all, I used to be on the cohousing L about 6 years ago and actually found the community we live in that way. We have been living in our cohousing community for 5+ years now. I went through the achieves and read a bunch of what has been posted on my topic and would still like feed back. I find in our community that people tend to be confrontation phobic so a lot of issues go by way of adding to undercurrent. We have established a Community Health Team to try and deal with some of these issues. I am currently on it an one of the founding members of the team. My questions has to do with what other communities have done when one member becomes a repetitive problem for several people in the community. It is especially sticky in that she seems to be teetering on the edge of real depression. She also has created divisiveness within the community through lobbing her side of things where other's feel like it's no one else business and don't counteract with their side of things. I know there are no easy answers but I was hoping other cohousing communities might already have established a protocol for dealing with such situations. Any insights would be greatly appreciated. Peace, Devrah
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