Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: R Philip Dowds (rpdowdscomcast.net) | |
Date: Sat, 23 Jan 2016 04:50:27 -0800 (PST) |
This is an important distinction. Many “conflicts" are trivial and idiosyncratic: unique communication errors, speculation in a context of missing information, random personal preferences or phobias, and so on. But when people are unable to agree on basic facts, or on a credible problem description, or on list of plausible alternative solutions — the underlying causes are often repressed and seemingly unmentionable anger, resentment, competition, or disappointment. Debating the “facts” is utterly pointless when the underlying causes remain denied and undiscussable. Thanks, Philip Dowds Cornerstone Village Cohousing Cambridge, MA > On Jan 22, 2016, at 12:45 PM, Mary Baker, Solid Communications <mary [at] > solid-communications.com> wrote: > > Also, maybe I should clarify that this is a workbook about handling real > conflict—burning anger, repressed resentment, explosions, forms of adult > bullying, broken relationships.
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any?, (continued)
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? R Philip Dowds, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Sharon Villines, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? R Philip Dowds, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? R Philip Dowds, January 23 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Jerry McIntire, January 23 2016
- Community Information [ was Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Sharon Villines, January 22 2016
- Re: Community Information [ was Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any?} Refuses to play by the rules Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 22 2016
- Re: Community Information [ was Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any?} Refuses to play by the rules Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 22 2016
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