|Re: Play/toy weapons||<– Date –> <– Thread –>|
|From: Rick Gravrok (rick.gravrokgmail.com)|
|Date: Thu, 21 Jul 2016 13:37:51 -0700 (PDT)|
Children and play is a topic dear to my heart, I grew up in a neighborhood with over 40 kids in the neighborhood, we played outside most of the time. I was a preschool teacher for 7 great years. And for the first summer here at Monterey Cohousing in Minnesota when our families with children moved into the new townhomes, I provided a “Kids Kamp” for the 4 to 11 year olds. After the Texas University massacre where 14 people were shot dead, the governor put Dr. Stuart Brown in charge of research on this killer and others like him. He discovered a commonality: they lacked rough and tumble play. Kids need to be able to take risks as they play, this is how they learn to socialize, develop empathy, deal with real-life conflict and get their needs for physical contact met. Check out what Dr. Stuart Brown has to say at his National Institute for Play: http://www.nifplay.org And listen to NPR’s interview with him: http://www.onbeing.org/program/play-spirit-and-character/143 While I have big concerns about virtual, fantasy video games where the human players are the killers and never the recipient of any real-life consequences (other than losing points or the game), I believe that playing war, including playing with toy guns, where kids play with other real kids, where sometimes you’re the good guy, and sometimes the bad guy, and where sometimes you get hurt, childhood is the time of life to experience and learn from those real-life interactions. And without adults always helicoptering over them. And for those of you interested in healthy mentoring of boys, check out the award winning documentary called “JOURNEYMAN” (I’m in it for a few seconds) It includes a section on media addiction: http://www.mirrormanfilms.org If you watch it, you may want a box of Kleenex. The trailer is at: <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8dINl_U_vqg> And when a kid is in front of a screen, he/she is not outside. I recommend the book: *"LAST CHILD IN THE WOODS - Saving our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder" by Richard Louv* Have Fun, Play Hard, Play Fair, the Hurts are Worth It, Rick Gravrok Monterey Cohousing Community St. Louis Park, MN ----------------- On Thu, Jul 21, 2016 at 10:27 AM, David Heimann <heimann [at] theworld.com> wrote: > > > Hello, > > At Jamaica Plain Cohousing we have a rumpus room that contains > video and exercise equipment. The policies for its use pertain to safety, > protecting the equipment, and avoiding disturbances to areas outside the > room. There are no policies as to what gets watched, so for an adult it's > their choice and for a child it's a parent-child discussion. > > Regards, > David Heimann > Jamaica Plain Cohousing > > > P.S. -- During our development, someone referred to the four P's as > potentially contentious issues: "Pistols", "Pets", "Progeny", and > "Paying". Guns and swords are on that list! > > > > Date: Wed, 20 Jul 2016 15:30:01 -0400 > From: Sharon Villines <sharon [at] sharonvillines.com> > To: cohousing-l [at] cohousing.org > Subject: Re: [C-L]_ Play/toy weapons > Message-ID: <04FC1E0A-0ABD-406E-B84F-6F9D8CE1A94D [at] sharonvillines.com> > Content-Type: text/plain; charset=utf-8 > > > On Jul 20, 2016, at 1:42 PM, Tiffany Lee Brown <magdalen23 [at] gmail.com> >> wrote: >> >> My overall impression was, "if this community is anti-gun, shouldn't that >> be written into their community guidelines? Why find this out after you buy >> a townhouse and move across the country?? >> > > When communities are starting there are huge numbers of things to do and > to decide. Plus you have 30+ households moving all at the same time. > Everyone has a household in shock. They can?t find anything and their pets > and children are going nuts. And they are learning how to manage a > multi-million dollar residential real estate project. Maintenance, > inspections, etc. > > Issues are dealt with that involve present residents. It would be > impossible to deal with all the issues in the world. Plus no one knows what > all those issues are until someone with them moves in. > > It?s also hard to predict what will be an issue. One person?s issue is > another person?s common practice. Following common sense rules doesn?t work > in a diverse community. > > > Sharon > ---- > Sharon Villines > Takoma Village Cohousing, Washington DC > http://www.takomavillage.org > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Cohousing-L mailing list -- Unsubscribe, archives and other info at: > http://www.cohousing.org/cohousing-L/ > > >
- Re: Issues in Cohousing [was Play/toy weapons, (continued)
- Re: Issues in Cohousing [was Play/toy weapons Tiffany Lee Brown, July 22 2016
- Re: Play/toy weapons Sharon Villines, July 21 2016
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