|Re: Inappropriate Behavior||<– Date –> <– Thread –>|
|From: Chris Hansen (itschrishansengmail.com)|
|Date: Mon, 6 Sep 2021 09:48:10 -0700 (PDT)|
No- most of those happen pretty frequently, but it does depend on both the norms in your community, and the personal relationship between the communicator and whomever is responding (or reacting, as the case may be) The one that I think needs to be dealt with carefully (and there will be others in this group who can speak eloquently to this) is mentioning to community members about their lack of participation around tasks they have chosen or assigned. Doing so in a way that can be heard must be in the realms of 'black belt' in the martial art of CoHousing Communications. If anyone here has effective ways of doing this that can be heard, let's talk about this in a separate thread! Cheers! Chris On Mon, 6 Sept 2021 at 12:37, Zev Paiss <zevpaiss [at] gmail.com> wrote: > I submitted a posting last week under the heading of changing Cohousing > norms and only received one private massage. > > Let me be more specific. Do you feel that any of the actions listed below > would be considered inappropriate behavior in your Cohousing community? > > Asking to borrow a car for an important local trip. > > Asking question of neighbors pertaining to their health, work, community > involvement or their family. > > Mentioning to community members about their lack of participation around > tasks they have chosen or assigned. > > Responding to email post that may not be directed to you but that you have > information about. > > I look forward to your responses. > > Zev Paiss > Boulder, CO > 720-925-5161 > _________________________________________________________________ > Cohousing-L mailing list -- Unsubscribe, archives and other info at: > http://L.cohousing.org/info > > > > -- Chris Hansen 32 East Village Drive Burlington Vermont 05401 USA Ph 603 3988730
- Inappropriate Behavior Zev Paiss, September 6 2021
- Re: Inappropriate Behavior Sharon Villines, September 6 2021
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