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From: Rob Sandelin (floriferousmsn.com) | |
Date: Sat, 12 Mar 2005 07:30:36 -0800 (PST) |
Sharon Villines wrote: In sociocracy, decisions are made on the basis of moving forward as best you can because moving forward gives you new information that you can use to evaluate and correct course. "This is the best we can do at the moment. If everyone can live with it at the moment, then we reevaluate when circumstances change (or we change them) and new information becomes available. I would point out that this brillant statement also applies to any any decision making process, sociocracy, consensus, voting, autocracy. It is this notion which makes any group collaboration function and this re-evaluation is often key to getting unstuck. Sometimes people are afraid to make ANY decision and they get stuck. Being open to re-evaluation builds confidence that the group can decide now, and change it later. One of the key problems in many group processess I evaluated was that groups made a mistake in the past, and people who were originally hesitant to make the decision felt vindicated, thus they hold up many decisions based on that experience and fear of the group making a mistake. I call this the, I told you so, syndrome. There are times when this is wise, there are other times in it unwise. A healthy approach is to acknowlege mistakes (that did not turn out like we thought it would), and move on, having learned from the past. I often counselled cohousing groups to create a community celebration day, most of which was spent admiring the amazing things you do, but part of which is used to evaluated things to work on and reconsider. Cohousing groups can get mired in sour grapes over unfullfilled construction desires or construction problems. I have met people who were holding resentments about some stupid building thing years after moving in. I think this can really poison your group. Also there is a huge shift between forming, building and living together in terms of the types of decisions that you make and how concrete they are. In creating a multi-million dollar real estate development there are thousands of decisions, some of which can not be easily undone. This means you have to get the parking lot right the first time because it would cost thousands of dollars to tear it up and move it. This all changes once a group moves in and most all the rest of your decisions can easily be undone. I have worked with groups to help them learn how to let things go, try things ok, do things for awhile and see. This took a shift from their thinking that everything had to be perfect the first time. This can be a difficult transition. One way to evaluate decisions would be to examine how easy is it to undo this? You might want to spent lots of time on those which are hard to undo, and learn to let go and try out things which are easy to undo. Rob Sandelin Sharingwood Cohousing Snohomish County, WA -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.308 / Virus Database: 266.7.2 - Release Date: 3/11/2005
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Re: Concerning Consensus and established CoHo communities normangauss, March 11 2005
- RE: Concerning Consensus and established CoHo communities Eileen McCourt, March 11 2005
- Re: Concerning Consensus and established CoHo communities Kevin Wolf, March 11 2005
- Re: Concerning Consensus and established CoHo communities Sharon Villines, March 12 2005
- Movinmg forward with the best info you have in decision making. Rob Sandelin, March 12 2005
- Re: Movinmg forward with the best info you have in decision making. Sharon Villines, March 14 2005
- Re: Movinmg forward with the best info you have in decision making. Matt Lawrence, March 14 2005
- Re: Movinmg forward with the best info you have in decisionmaking. normangauss, March 20 2005
- Re: Movinmg forward with the best info you have in decisionmaking. Sharon Villines, March 20 2005
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Re: Concerning Consensus and established CoHo communities normangauss, March 11 2005
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