Re: Commitments to community | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Mary Baker, Solid Communications (marysolid-communications.com) | |
Date: Thu, 21 Jan 2016 08:18:40 -0800 (PST) |
Apologies for coming late to the discussion. We have a really robust work culture here, and it’s all entirely voluntary. I think that’s because the appreciation is always flowing, verbalized and feted, and so work offerings are considered part of our socializing. Having said that, we do have a few (very few) people who like to swan at the work parties—they make a big show of attending and greeting everyone but if you watch closely they always have someone to talk to, or a plant to deliver, or have to get a bottle of water and so they dodge in and out and never actually get anything done! Ditto for teams. Sometimes the most visible or vocal individuals are not really accomplishing much outside of their own interests, while our quiet heroes like our reclusive chessmaster, IT team, maintenance team, are quietly getting stuff done every day! But you know what? That’s a society. Everyone is different. If you replace the word ‘swan’ with ‘greeter’ then those individuals bring the sunshine and smiles, and that’s an important contribution too. While respecting your concern, I think that imposing mandatory participation in anything is not a good idea. 1) I believe it’s disrespectful—it says, in effect, that your citizens are untrustworthy and need to be policed. 2) It squashes individuality. 3) Someone has to constantly be the participation police, and who really wants that job? And 4) I think if a community is lacking in participation, the reasons are much deeper than you realize. Regards, Mary B. The Cohousing Life
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