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From: Gretchen Westlight (gren![]() |
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Date: Fri, 3 Dec 1999 00:30:44 -0700 (MST) |
Greetings - About a month ago, I posted a question to find out what kinds of meeting formats are being used in other communities. I've been working on compiling a descriptive list for my community (Cascadia Commons), and wanted to make it as inclusive as possible. Several folks requested that I post the results, and at last, here they are! This list is designed to help presenters choose an approach ahead of time. There were some formats that I felt fell into gray areas, so I mention them by name in the introduction but do not describe them. The list below does not include things that are primarily (in my experience) used to change direction in the middle of a discussion, to keep things moving, or to shift the energy, etc., which are generally impossible to plan ahead for and which I consider the responsibility of the facilitators, not necessarily the presenters. I'd like to credit my fabulous community-mate, Erica Bolliger, with great editing, and to thank the creative Patty Mara Gourley of Tierra Nueva for her generous and thoughtful comments. Any errors or omissions are mine, and if you find any I'd like to know about them! ;-) I'm including the list in text format, which is really not too different from my final layout (if anyone really needs to see it completely formatted, I'll be happy to send it privately). I managed to fit it onto 2 sides of legal sized paper (11x14 inches), using mostly 12 point Garamond font. CAPITALS are what was in bold, *asterisks* indicate italics. I hope you find this useful. May it bring variety and vitality to your meetings. Gretchen Westlight Cascadia Commons Cohousing Portland, Oregon, USA P.S. I was originally intending to unsubscribe after I posted this message, but I'm really enjoying the list. It's giving me such hope and perspective -- we're having a hard time in Cascadia: after 9 months of permit purgatory, we entered the fiscal inferno. It's almost 9 months of that, so I figure we're due to enter into construction chaos anytime now. The list gives me a taste of the pithy paradise I hope cohousing to be, which helps me get through these unpleasant and seemingly endless months. I expect mostly to lurk, and want to thank everyone who does post -- your words have value beyond the information you share, and I am grateful. ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Meeting Formats 12/99 This is a list of several meeting formats, which may be used during part or all of a meeting, including Community Time. It is provided to help us select what form we most need at any given time. The various formats can help give structure, clarity and depth to our interactions, thus enhancing our communication. There are also a number of techniques available to get us through a stuck place or to add variety to our meetings, to keep things from getting routine. These include FISH BOWL EXERCISE, SMALL GROUP DISCUSSIONS, DEFINING THE PROBLEM, and many more. While presenters can plan to incorporate these techniques if desired, it is most often facilitators who will recommend using them during a meeting to maintain our forward progress. Consider whether a Listening Meeting or Council Process would be a wise first step to ensure everyone has had a chance to speak to an issue; usually we are not able to reach true consensus on complicated or hot topics without having a full airing of opinions and feelings. BRAINSTORMING Purpose: To produce new ideas on any given topic, to get creative juices flowing. Qualities: Free flowing, generative, creative (sometimes funny or outlandish!). Fast-paced with natural periods of quiet. Form: Popcorn-style is most natural to this format. People speak out ideas as they occur to them (use several scribes if needed to capture everything). Guidelines: No judging or commenting. "Unreasonable," "illogical," and "long shot" ideas welcome, as they may inspire other ideas that later prove workable. Don't censor anything or anyone. Do not flesh things out during the brainstorming. May take time at end to combine, prioritize, preliminary fine tune, and otherwise tweak the ideas generated. COUNCIL PROCESS (Talking Circle) Purpose: To bring out all pieces of the Truth. Each council member brings a piece of the truth to the circle -- essential, but only a part of the whole. The truth of council is to uncover greater understanding. It can be used in large or small groups for: finding all the voices, conflict resolution, storytelling, brainstorming, co-visioning. It is *not* a decision-making structure. Qualities: Derived from a Native American format: We must consider the impact of our truths today unto seven generations. Interactive meditation; deep, mindful listening; heart speaking; all are one. Form: All sit in a circle. The Council Chief opens and closes the circle, and reminds the group of the guidelines as needed. The talking stick is used to entitle one person to speak at a time; it is returned to the central "children's fire" between speakers. The children's fire serves as a reminder of the generations to come and the future repercussions of our words (a physical manifestation is important; candles can represent the fire in the absence of a central hearth). Guidelines: Speak honestly from the heart to the perspective of the children's fire. Never cross the children's fire (no interrupting, responding, negating), except to say "ho" with deep agreement or when someone's words have expressed your heart. Be brief. Listen from the heart -- planning ahead what to say in response hinders the weaving of the council's magic thread. Pause between speakers -- hear the truth in silence. Complete confidentiality is maintained outside the circle, as the truth is in what each person's heart hears for itself (retelling it biases it by the teller's filters). Council Process may also be done with each person assigned to represent a specific perspective (e.g., the land, the architect, the developer next door, the children, etc.). EXTENDED CHECK-IN Purpose: Answers the questions "how are you doing?" or "what is up for you right now?" An opportunity for each person to express what is going on in his or her life (not restricted to cohousing). Qualities: Re-connecting, deeper knowing of each other. Form: Flows more smoothly to go around the circle, but popcorn-style is okay. Guidelines: No interruptions, and allow each person to finish. May have time limit per person. LARGE GROUP DISCUSSION (Regular Business Format) Purpose: To discuss and/or decide on business by bringing forth support, concerns, questions, additional information and feelings about business items. Qualities: Cooperative thinking (let's put our heads together). Conflict is viewed as an opportunity to increase understanding and/or make well-considered decisions that have been viewed from many sides. Form: Committees (or individuals) make proposals or request discussion time. Facilitators guide the discussion by calling on the colored cards in the appropriate order, and by keeping the group on task and on time. Decisions made by consensus. Guidelines: Use cards, stay on topic. Delegate further detailed discussion to the relevant committee. Proposals should be distributed to the group at least 2 days before they will be discussed. LISTENING MEETING (Sharing Meeting) Purpose: To listen to each other and feel heard; to build a sense of community by creating safety and by increasing knowledge about each other. To share background information, issues and concerns, perhaps about items that we will eventually have to make decisions about. Qualities: Spacious acceptance of each other's truth, even if the content is controversial. Attending to listening skills. Form: May have a theme, such as answering the question "How do you feel about _____?" (a current issue or whatever). Can include exercises to get people thinking and talking. May use go-round or popcorn-style sharing. Guidelines: No decisions allowed, although topics that are raised and suggestions made may be discussed or addressed later as action items if appropriate. No interruptions: one at a time, and include silence. Respect each other, and respect yourself. Disagreement is fine. Emotion is fine. Topics that come up here can be carried on outside the meeting, but no talking 'about' someone unless you are willing to say that same thing directly to the person (i.e., no "gossip"). OPEN SPACE MEETING Purpose: To provide a flexible structure for creative thinking and risk-taking action. Qualities: Adaptive, self-driven, encouraging and requiring personal responsibility. Suited for community time, not regular business meetings. Form: Each person brings whatever topics they want to for the agenda, and participates in whatever small group discussions that interest them. The first time Open Space is used, it is best to dedicate a full day to it; when the group becomes more practiced, less time may be needed. Also for the first time, an outside facilitator is recommended. For further information: _Riding the Tiger_ by Harrison Owen (1991, Abbott Publishing). Guidelines: The basic elements are a Theme (determined ahead of time by the whole group, can be as simple as "What's Up?"), Start and Stop Times, the Community Bulletin Board, and the Village Market Place. The Four Principles: whoever comes are the right people; whatever happens is the only thing that could have; whenever it starts is the right time; when it's over, it's over. The Law of Two Feet: everybody has them, and is responsible for their use; there is a time to talk and a time to walk. REPORT Purpose: To share information with the group, or to bring the group up to speed on the details of committee and other outside work. Qualities: Business-like. Form: An individual or committee presents information necessary to the group for keeping up on work that is happening, or that is relevant for future decision-making. The group may or may not have the opportunity to have questions answered. Guidelines: Generally it is information-out only (no discussion). Allow the presenter to field questions as they prefer, either during their report or at the end. OTHER: Create Your Own Format Purpose: To meet a need that couldn't be met by, or to address a topic that wouldn't fit within, any of the formats above. What is the desired outcome? Qualities: You decide! Form: How do people share or speak? Are there special roles, supplies or props that are needed? Guidelines: Consider confidentiality, what happens to information that is brought up (viz. future business), dealing with emotions, etc.
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