Meeting Formats
From: Gretchen Westlight (grenagora.rdrop.com)
Date: Fri, 3 Dec 1999 00:30:44 -0700 (MST)
Greetings -

About a month ago, I posted a question to find out what kinds of meeting 
formats are being used in other communities.  I've been working on 
compiling a descriptive list for my community (Cascadia Commons), and 
wanted to make it as inclusive as possible.  Several folks requested that 
I post the results, and at last, here they are!

This list is designed to help presenters choose an approach ahead of time. 
There were some formats that I felt fell into gray areas, so I mention
them by name in the introduction but do not describe them.  The list below
does not include things that are primarily (in my experience)  used to
change direction in the middle of a discussion, to keep things moving, or
to shift the energy, etc., which are generally impossible to plan ahead
for and which I consider the responsibility of the facilitators, not
necessarily the presenters. 

I'd like to credit my fabulous community-mate, Erica Bolliger, with great
editing, and to thank the creative Patty Mara Gourley of Tierra Nueva for
her generous and thoughtful comments.  Any errors or omissions are mine,
and if you find any I'd like to know about them! ;-)  I'm including the
list in text format, which is really not too different from my final
layout (if anyone really needs to see it completely formatted, I'll be
happy to send it privately).  I managed to fit it onto 2 sides of legal
sized paper (11x14 inches), using mostly 12 point Garamond font.  CAPITALS
are what was in bold, *asterisks* indicate italics. 

I hope you find this useful.  May it bring variety and vitality to your
meetings.

Gretchen Westlight
Cascadia Commons Cohousing
Portland, Oregon, USA

P.S.  I was originally intending to unsubscribe after I posted this
message, but I'm really enjoying the list.  It's giving me such hope and
perspective -- we're having a hard time in Cascadia: after 9 months of
permit purgatory, we entered the fiscal inferno.  It's almost 9 months of
that, so I figure we're due to enter into construction chaos anytime now. 
The list gives me a taste of the pithy paradise I hope cohousing to be,
which helps me get through these unpleasant and seemingly endless months. 
I expect mostly to lurk, and want to thank everyone who does post -- your
words have value beyond the information you share, and I am grateful. 

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                           Meeting Formats
                                12/99

This is a list of several meeting formats, which may be used during part 
or all of a meeting, including Community Time.  It is provided to help us 
select what form we most need at any given time.  The various formats can 
help give structure, clarity and depth to our interactions, thus 
enhancing our communication.

There are also a number of techniques available to get us through a stuck 
place or to add variety to our meetings, to keep things from getting 
routine.  These include FISH BOWL EXERCISE, SMALL GROUP DISCUSSIONS, 
DEFINING THE PROBLEM, and many more.  While presenters can plan to 
incorporate these techniques if desired, it is most often facilitators 
who will recommend using them during a meeting to maintain our forward 
progress.  Consider whether a Listening Meeting or Council Process would 
be a wise first step to ensure everyone has had a chance to speak to an 
issue; usually we are not able to reach true consensus on complicated or 
hot topics without having a full airing of opinions and feelings.

BRAINSTORMING
Purpose:        To produce new ideas on any given topic, to get creative
                juices flowing.
Qualities:      Free flowing, generative, creative (sometimes funny or
                outlandish!).  Fast-paced with natural periods of quiet.
Form:           Popcorn-style is most natural to this format.  People
                speak out ideas as they occur to them (use several
                scribes if needed to capture everything).
Guidelines:     No judging or commenting.  "Unreasonable," "illogical,"
                and "long shot" ideas welcome, as they may inspire other
                ideas that later prove workable.  Don't censor anything
                or anyone.  Do not flesh things out during the
                brainstorming.  May take time at end to combine,
                prioritize, preliminary fine tune, and otherwise tweak
                the ideas generated.

COUNCIL PROCESS (Talking Circle)
Purpose:        To bring out all pieces of the Truth.  Each council
                member brings a piece of the truth to the circle -- 
                essential, but only a part of the whole.  The truth of 
                council is to uncover greater understanding.  It can be 
                used in large or small groups for: finding all the 
                voices, conflict resolution, storytelling, brainstorming,
                co-visioning.  It is *not* a decision-making structure.
Qualities:      Derived from a Native American format: We must consider 
                the impact of our truths today unto seven generations. 
                Interactive meditation; deep, mindful listening; heart 
                speaking; all are one.
Form:           All sit in a circle.  The Council Chief opens and closes 
                the circle, and reminds the group of the guidelines as 
                needed.  The talking stick is used to entitle one person 
                to speak at a time; it is returned to the central 
                "children's fire" between speakers.  The children's fire 
                serves as a reminder of the generations to come and the 
                future repercussions of our words (a physical 
                manifestation is important; candles can represent the 
                fire in the absence of a central hearth).
Guidelines:     Speak honestly from the heart to the perspective of the 
                children's fire.  Never cross the children's fire (no 
                interrupting, responding, negating), except to say "ho" 
                with deep agreement or when someone's words have 
                expressed your heart.  Be brief.  Listen from the heart 
                -- planning ahead what to say in response hinders the 
                weaving of the council's magic thread.  Pause between 
                speakers -- hear the truth in silence.  Complete 
                confidentiality is maintained outside the circle, as the 
                truth is in what each person's heart hears for itself 
                (retelling it biases it by the teller's filters). 
                Council Process may also be done with each person 
                assigned to represent a specific perspective (e.g., the 
                land, the architect, the developer next door, the 
                children, etc.).

EXTENDED CHECK-IN
Purpose:        Answers the questions "how are you doing?" or "what is up 
                for you right now?"  An opportunity for each person to 
                express what is going on in his or her life (not 
                restricted to cohousing).
Qualities:      Re-connecting, deeper knowing of each other.
Form:           Flows more smoothly to go around the circle, but 
                popcorn-style is okay.
Guidelines:     No interruptions, and allow each person to finish.  May 
                have time limit per person.

LARGE GROUP DISCUSSION (Regular Business Format)
Purpose:        To discuss and/or decide on business by bringing forth 
                support, concerns, questions, additional information and 
                feelings about business items.
Qualities:      Cooperative thinking (let's put our heads together). 
                Conflict is viewed as an opportunity to increase 
                understanding and/or make well-considered decisions that 
                have been viewed from many sides.
Form:           Committees (or individuals) make proposals or request 
                discussion time.  Facilitators guide the discussion by 
                calling on the colored cards in the appropriate order, 
                and by keeping the group on task and on time.  Decisions 
                made by consensus.
Guidelines:     Use cards, stay on topic.  Delegate further detailed 
                discussion to the relevant committee.  Proposals should 
                be distributed to the group at least 2 days before they 
                will be discussed.

LISTENING MEETING (Sharing Meeting)
Purpose:        To listen to each other and feel heard; to build a sense 
                of community by creating safety and by increasing 
                knowledge about each other.  To share background 
                information, issues and concerns, perhaps about items 
                that we will eventually have to make decisions about.
Qualities:      Spacious acceptance of each other's truth, even if the 
                content is controversial.  Attending to listening skills.
Form:           May have a theme, such as answering the question "How do 
                you feel about _____?" (a current issue or whatever). 
                Can include exercises to get people thinking and talking. 
                May use go-round or popcorn-style sharing.
Guidelines:     No decisions allowed, although topics that are raised and 
                suggestions made may be discussed or addressed later as 
                action items if appropriate.  No interruptions: one at a 
                time, and include silence.  Respect each other, and 
                respect yourself.  Disagreement is fine.  Emotion is 
                fine.  Topics that come up here can be carried on outside 
                the meeting, but no talking 'about' someone unless you 
                are willing to say that same thing directly to the person 
                (i.e., no "gossip").

OPEN SPACE MEETING
Purpose:        To provide a flexible structure for creative thinking and 
                risk-taking action.
Qualities:      Adaptive, self-driven, encouraging and requiring personal 
                responsibility.  Suited for community time, not regular 
                business meetings.
Form:           Each person brings whatever topics they want to for the 
                agenda, and participates in whatever small group 
                discussions that interest them.  The first time Open 
                Space is used, it is best to dedicate a full day to it; 
                when the group becomes more practiced, less time may be 
                needed.  Also for the first time, an outside facilitator 
                is recommended.  For further information: _Riding the 
                Tiger_ by Harrison Owen (1991, Abbott Publishing).
Guidelines:     The basic elements are a Theme (determined ahead of time 
                by the whole group, can be as simple as "What's Up?"), 
                Start and Stop Times, the Community Bulletin Board, and 
                the Village Market Place.  The Four Principles: whoever 
                comes are the right people; whatever happens is the only 
                thing that could have; whenever it starts is the right 
                time; when it's over, it's over.  The Law of Two Feet: 
                everybody has them, and is responsible for their use; 
                there is a time to talk and a time to walk.

REPORT
Purpose:        To share information with the group, or to bring the 
                group up to speed on the details of committee and other 
                outside work.
Qualities:      Business-like.
Form:           An individual or committee presents information necessary 
                to the group for keeping up on work that is happening, or 
                that is relevant for future decision-making.  The group 
                may or may not have the opportunity to have questions 
                answered.
Guidelines:     Generally it is information-out only (no discussion). 
                Allow the presenter to field questions as they prefer, 
                either during their report or at the end.

OTHER: Create Your Own Format
Purpose:        To meet a need that couldn't be met by, or to address a 
                topic that wouldn't fit within, any of the formats above. 
                What is the desired outcome?
Qualities:      You decide!
Form:           How do people share or speak?  Are there special roles, 
                supplies or props that are needed?
Guidelines:     Consider confidentiality, what happens to information 
                that is brought up (viz. future business), dealing with 
                emotions, etc.
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