Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: more on The Tyranny of Structurelessness

[Sharon Villines (sharonvillines]

> In a group without defined
> structure, power flows to she who knows the unwritten rules - and exercises
> them to her own advantage.

And wears out everyone else in the process, usually by insisting that she
has not done exactly what she has done. She sighs and looks sweet and
vulnerable. The male version is Peter Pan, plays impish to get away with it.

Sharon
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Sharon Villines
Takoma Village Cohousing, Washington DC
http://www.takomavillage.org


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