Cohousing-L Mailing List: RE: Re: drawbacks

[Rob Sandelin (floriferous]

Only one thing I would add to Lynn and others lists of drawbacks is the 
feedback.  Many people apparently never get honest feedback about 
themselves, their kids, their pets. When you live in a community you have a 
higher likelihood of getting that feedback.  This has driven some people 
away, especially when you are held accountable for your actions and their 
affects. A man moved out of our community last year becuase of the feedback 
about his kid, his parenting. He had been avoiding this successfully until 
he came here, after a while he decided he didn't like it.  He DID say he 
learned a huge amount, but he didn't like it much.

Rob Sandelin
Sharingwood
SNohomish COunty, WA

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