Re: Posting Request-Dealing with Sensitive Issues | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Alan O'Hashi (adoecos![]() |
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Date: Tue, 1 Oct 2019 05:50:07 -0700 (PDT) |
Robin - If you think talking about other people's kids is sensitive, wait until you talk about other people's money! I'd say comportment around such topics is one of community maturation or lack thereof. Neighbors can get really wound up and get into arguments. Speaking first hand, I just got into one myself that resulted in a wrist-slapping. I think the key thing is for people not to take things too personally, particularly if there are personal attacks that arise from presentation of hard-to-swallow facts. At the end of the day, everyone still has to continue to work together. The analogy I use is, that of Robin Hood. If you've ever seen any of those movies, certain members of Robin's "band of merry men" get into these knock-down, drag-out fights. But when it came to defeating the Sheriff of Nottingham, they drop their fists and join in and work together to achieve their "higher purpose." Communities - particularly forming communities - should spend more time talking about relationship issues than what kind of countertop finishes to pick. There's also the gravity of evil test. What becomes contentious to one person may be no-big-deal to someone else. If a kid is screaming in front of one house, may not even be a known issue to a household on the other end of the building. At my place, the process for a topic to be processed and finally approved takes really a long time. In fact, it takes so long that circumstances change tremendously in between idea to approval - people move, new people arrive, two people work out the problem. The vast majority of 'things' will resolve themselves. Thx, Alan O
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Posting Request-Dealing with Sensitive Issues Robin, September 29 2019
- Re: Posting Request-Dealing with Sensitive Issues Elizabeth Magill, September 30 2019
- Re: Posting Request-Dealing with Sensitive Issues Alan O'Hashi, October 1 2019
- Re: Posting Request-Dealing with Sensitive Issues Alicia George, October 1 2019
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