Cohousing-L Mailing List: Happy Thanksgiving

[Victor McGuire (victor]

Hello-As we head into the holiday season  a time when many of us are craving 
deeper moments of connection I want to share something I believe will resonate 
deeply with our co-housing community.

It’s called TQIF, which stands for Thoughts, Questions, Ideas & Feelings.
TQIF is a beautifully simple 150-card conversation game created to help people 
slow down, talk, listen, and reconnect with what matters most.

This is not a game you “win.”
It’s a game you feel.
A game you remember.
Some people play games to pass the time. We play TQIF to make the time more 
memorable.

What TQIF Is

Each card invites you to explore one of four categories:

Thoughts – What’s on your mind

Questions – What you’re curious about

Ideas – What you imagine or envision

Feelings – What your heart wants to share

It creates moments where people lean in, open up, laugh, reflect, and feel seen.
It’s simple, warm, and deeply human.

Who It’s For

TQIF is for:

Friends and neighbors

Co-housing communities

Families

Teens and young adults

Elders

Community groups and circles

Anyone who wants to deepen connection and spark meaningful conversation

Whether your community enjoys regular potlucks, house meetings, social nights, 
or impromptu kitchen-table conversations, TQIF fits naturally into any 
gathering.

Why It Makes a Great Holiday Gift 🎁

Because it gives people something we all need right now:
Connection. Conversation. Belonging.

In a world that often pulls us apart, TQIF brings people back together — around 
a table, around a fire, or around a shared moment. It’s a gift that creates 
memories long after the wrapping paper is gone.

If you’d like to bring TQIF into your home, or gift it to someone you care 
about, you can order it here:

👉 TQIFgame.com

Thank you for being part of such a caring, vibrant community.
Wishing you a season filled with warmth, connection, and meaningful 
conversations.

With gratitude,
Victor McGuire

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J. Victor McGuire, Ph.D.
CEO & Founder, Coach Like Leadership
Instilling Leadership with Heart, Building Teams with Purpose, Creating Results 
That Matter.
Mobile: (702) 265-1163
Email: victor [at] coachlikeleadership.com
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