RE: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Rob Sandelin (robsanmicrosoft.com) | |
Date: Thu, 12 Jan 95 15:43 CST |
Jean Pfleiderer made some excellent responses to my points. I just wanted to add that none of the points I made referenced in anyway Sharingwoods attitudes or positions about visitors. At Sharingwood if a stranger is walking around the neighborhood someone almost always will come out of their house and say howdi. How individuals react to strangers walking around at Sharingwood varies with the person, their current state of mind, and the visitor and their response to the Howdi. There is no visitor policy at this time and it has never been discussed. We have no fences and have two signs, one is handpainted and says local traffic only, pedestrians welcome, dogs on leash. We are at the end of the County rd and this sign is intended to get the Sunday drivers to turn around at the County rd and not in our community. It works well in that neighbors who walk our road for exercise leash their dogs. The entrance sign says Sharingwood Community, private drive. The rules and info about visiting are posting on a bulletin board at the entrance. The rules posted are: Dogs must be on leash, speed limit 10 mph, tours available on request with a phone number. There is a bunch of materials explaining what cohousing is and what's happening at Sharingwood in general conceptual terms. As the area contact person for the local cohousing groups I have been asked by one group to only forward their phone number, that they are open to visitors by appointment only. My point was if a group feels strongly that they want visitors by appointment only it is good to know that, and the only way you can is by calling first. You also asked if anyone in my group has guns. I do not know of any, never asked, not an issue for us yet. >I can not imagine any community calling itself "cohousing" that would mind >having you walk around in it, Rob, I really can't. Have I missed something here? Actually what is different is probably somewhere in our upbringings or some other place where attitudes about visiting are instilled. I did not mean to imply that Winslow would have a problem with me walking around. I actually do not know if they have any sort of policy about it. What I said was I would feel ..... That comes from me, not them. I was taught and I guess feel pretty strongly still that visiting someone's home who you do not know without an invitation is rude behavior. I do not visit even my friends unless I call first. Its just one of those value things I guess. My feeling, based I suppose on my values, is that uninvited visitors to Sharingwood, who are walking around in people yards and walkways, playing in the playground, peering into windows of houses (this has happened) are being rude. Those are my feelings and do not represent anything else. Sorry if it came across I was trying to speak for Sharingwood or anybody else. Rob
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Re: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Fred H Olson WB0YQM, January 11 1995
- Re: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Rob Sandelin, January 12 1995
- RE: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Jean Pfleiderer, January 12 1995
- RE: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Rob Sandelin, January 12 1995
- RE: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Jean Pfleiderer, January 12 1995
- RE: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Stuart Staniford-Chen, January 12 1995
- Re: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) Gary Shea, January 12 1995
- Re: "Gawkers" at cohousing communities (FWD) 227-3182, January 13 1995
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