Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: Values in community, was sexuality

[Craig Ragland (craigragland]

ASK, then ask someone else, and then someone else.

Its been interesting for me to experience my reactions to this thread. I
find myself uncomfortable with the idea of getting as specific as others
have been. I'm just not comfortable making pronouncements about Songaian's
sexuality or politics, etc. I guess its a boundary issue...

I don't feel that I have permission to publically share stuff that might be
private to others... especially with 600 ('of my closest friends"). And,
talking about this in the abstract doesn't feel authentic for me.

On 3/14/06, Cher Stuewe Portnoff <cher710 [at] mchsi.com> wrote:
>
> Ditto. This is something we'd want to know before joining a community, but
> as guest/visitors, how/who would we ask? I guess Emily's email encourages
> us
> to just do it -- good practice for living in community, too.
>