Re: Disallusioned with cohousing | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Rob Sandelin (floriferousmsn.com) | |
Date: Tue, 27 Jun 2006 14:44:44 -0700 (PDT) |
My comments after living in cohousing awhile: Live it for five years, then evaluate the reality. Trying to evaluate relationships within the context of a forming group doing real estate development will give anybody a skewed perspective of the reality of life in cohousing. Once you move in things should change considerably. So move in, live there five years. By then systems will have shaken down, people least likely to succeed will have left and you will have a pretty close approximation of what the rest of the time there will be like. And I expect after five years experience you will be able to distinguish between your own baggage and what the reality is. People come to community with all kinds of expecations, some of them quite unreasonable. But after a while you will figure out that.....its not about YOU or what you want.......and once you figure that out, you should be able to craft a good relationship with community reality. If you never figure that out you are unlikely EVER to find a community life that is satisfactory. Rob Sandelin Sharingwood Resident 15 years, 8 months, 11 days. Naturalist, Writer The Environmental Science School http://www.nonprofitpages.com/nica/SVE.htm ><((((º>`·..·`·..·`·...><((((º>...·`·..·`·...><((((º>.·`·..·`·...><((((º>.·` ·..·`·...><((((º>·.. ><((((º> ·`·..·`·...·..·`><((((º>.·`·..·`·...><((((º>.·`·..·`·...><((((º>..·`·..·`·.. .><((((º>·.. ·`·..·`·....·`·..·`·...><((((º> -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.394 / Virus Database: 268.9.5/377 - Release Date: 6/27/2006
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Re: Disallusioned with cohousing Sharon Villines, June 27 2006
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