Re: Peace is a Co-housing issue | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Larry Miller (larry.millercharter.net) | |
Date: Sun, 16 Dec 2007 12:52:36 -0800 (PST) |
"For me, I view cohousing communities as being those communities which are actualizing the principles of cooperation, environmentalism, and peace." I was one of those who requested that the discussion was not an appropriate subject for the list serve. My purpose in suggesting that was based, not on opposition to the subject, but on a sense of what makes cohousing work - or not work. Cohousing doesn't work for everyone. After several years in cohousing and observing where I and others had the most trouble adapting, it is my conclusion that the biggest impediment is a preconceived notion of what people who are in cohousing believe in or agree on. Everyone moves into cohousing for the first time with some set of expectations on what it means. The reality is that, while there may be a philosophical agreement about environment, diversity, peace, etc., there tends to be little agreement on what that means in detail. As soon as one starts thinking that others "should" behave in a certain way because "we are cohousing," it leads to disappointment and difficulty in getting comfortable in the uniqueness of your particular group of neighbors. Larry Miller Oak Creek Commons
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Re: Peace is a Co-housing issue crisdenrob, December 16 2007
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Cohousing as a crucible for values Rob Sandelin, December 16 2007
- Re: Cohousing as a crucible for values balaji, December 16 2007
- Re: Peace is a Co-housing issue Larry Miller, December 16 2007
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