Cohousing-L Mailing List: RE: Learning from Hard Decisions

[Rob Sandelin (floriferous]

I would add one thing to Jims excellent  analysis. Sometimes, people need
more time to chew on an idea, and folks that at first are totally against an
idea, will come around to realize  how silly they are being. Giving them a
later time, to save face, and say yes, is a good way to help them out of the
bind they are in.

Sometimes you can just have a bad day, be unreasonable for no good reason.
Having a time out, where you chew on ideas, can move  people into a more
cooperative space.

Rob Sandelin

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