Re: Child Custody Cases in Cohousing | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Pare Gerou (paregerou![]() |
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Date: Sun, 3 Aug 2025 01:52:04 -0700 (PDT) |
Hi Claire, It sounds like a very difficult situation. I’m not sure exactly what you mean by being a “witness” in this case—unless there has been a specific incident or injury, which would take this to another level. I also don’t know if your particular community is somehow atypical and has children playing where no one can see them. However, in general- you might consider submitting an affidavit from your cohousing architect, describing the design features that ensure lines of sight from multiple neighboring homes to shared play areas, as well as other built-in aspects that support child safety and communal awareness. Affidavits from parents in the community could also be powerful. They can speak to the ways the cohousing model fosters informal supervision, trusted relationships, and an environment where children feel supported—not isolated. This kind of testimony can directly support the “best interests of the child” standard that’s central in custody decisions. On a less legal note, I’ve encountered several amazing families in cohousing who, even after divorcing, both remained in the community in separate homes. While it may be rare, it exists, and it’s worth noting how cohousing has supported healthier post-divorce arrangements—giving children stability, continuity, and access to both parents in a familiar setting. If someone in your community is artful, perhaps attempting to connect the parent leveling the complaint with parents who’ve successfully navigated divorced in cohousing setting might provide role models for the divorcing parents. And if there is another home available, it also might redirect the complaining parent to think about cohousing as a way to get more access to the children more easily - which may be what is driving this complaint. -Pare Gerou On Sun, Aug 3, 2025 at 12:30 AM Claire Richards <clairerichardsrn [at] gmail.com> wrote: > Greetings, > > I am a witness in a child custody case where one party is trying to take > the children by arguing that cohousing is unsafe for children because we > allow them to run around "unsupervised", even though parental practices in > the community are not at all uniform. > I wonder if anyone else has experienced a situation like this and if they > might be open to sharing how they addressed this. > > Thank you, > Claire > _________________________________________________________________ > Cohousing-L mailing list -- Unsubscribe, archives and other info at: > http://L.cohousing.org/info > > > >
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Child Custody Cases in Cohousing Claire Richards, August 2 2025
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