Re: ROMANTICIZING COHOUSING | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Bitner/Stevenson (lilbertearthlink.net) | |
Date: Thu, 21 Oct 1999 17:04:08 -0600 (MDT) |
> > I have great dreams of living in cohousing someday with my husband. > But from the comments I have heard on this list, I am now feeling fear of > being rejected by my neighbors because we are poly. I'm also bisexual -- > and yet I was never worried about being rejected because of that > characteristic, because I knew that people in cohousing respected people > as individuals; that nondiscrimination was a core value of cohousing. Cohousing communities are not homogeneous. Lots of people are interested who are not involved in their local group for various reasons. My sister was interested in a group near her and found them really lame and disorganized. She didn't join. Several people on this list have been involved in more than one community, because the one they were in didn't meet their needs in some way. I see no reason for you to despair of finding and living in cohousing. There are people who have strong feelings about everything. Some groups will be much more open to you than others. Find your group, or create it. The fact is, polyamory is "not ready for prime time" in the way that homosexualtiy and bisexuality are. It will happen, but until then you are going to have to make a space for yourself and your loved ones, and educate people about who you are. Like it or not, you are a pioneer, and yes, it will be harder for you. Will it be any easier outside of cohousing? I don't think so. -- Liz Stevenson Southside Park Cohousing Sacramento, California
- Re: ROMANTICIZING COHOUSING, (continued)
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- Re: ROMANTICIZING COHOUSING Bitner/Stevenson, October 21 1999
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