Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Ellen Keyne Seebacher (ellepobox.com) | |
Date: Sun, 18 Mar 2012 23:57:50 -0700 (PDT) |
On Sun, Mar 18, 2012 at 07:01:39PM -0700, Dane Laverty wrote: > Would you expand on the gender dynamics in cohousing? Your comment > is fascinating to me -- I'd love to try living in a cohousing > community but my wife has no interest in it. I've been involved in my community since 2003, long before move-in, and my memory is that in the clear majority of mixed-gender couples who contacted us or joined the group, the woman was the one driving the interest and the man went along for the ride. (My own household, where my spouse and I were about equally interested, was one of the exceptions.) We had one major significant exception where *he* was really enthusiastic about cohousing, she really wasn't, and they joined and dropped out multiple times before she convinced him to build a house elsewhere. But it's hard to think of other examples of men leading reluctant women. We do have two single male homeowners (hi, Bob!), but they're outnumbered 2:1 by the single female homeowners. Many of our teams have shown gender dynamics, too. Facilitation (and Coordinating, when we had it) has been largely run by women; Buildings & Grounds is all men. The gender balance has evened out considerably since move-in, though; before that our Tech/Website and Mechanicals teams were mostly male and most other teams mostly female :-) -- Ellen Keyne Seebacher elle [at] pobox.com
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Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Sharon Villines, March 18 2012
- Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Ann Zabaldo, March 18 2012
- Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Moz, March 18 2012
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Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Dane Laverty, March 18 2012
- Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Ellen Keyne Seebacher, March 18 2012
- Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Lautner, Patricia, March 19 2012
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Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Sharon Villines, March 18 2012
- Re: Call for journalist interviewing cohousers Dane Laverty, March 21 2012
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