Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: Guidelines for E-mail use

[Racheli Gai (racheli]

Well, just because one gets her/his say doesn't necessarily entail 
*being
heard*, and could lead to growing unhappiness, mistrust, conflict which
isn't necessarily the best thing -- not even for the people who insist
on writing and violating community agreements.

In my  community (Sonora Cohousing in Tucson) email is both an essential
communication tool, AND a source of a lot of bad vibes and 
dissatisfaction.

Racheli.



On Oct 7, 2007, at 8:58 AM, Jenny Williams wrote:

> They seem to break the policy knowingly and willingly so that they can 
> be
> heard.  That's okay with me, as I feel everyone should be heard, but 
> many
> people have issue with it.
>
> jenny
>
>
> Robert Heinich wrote:
>
> > What do the folks say after someone points out that they are not
> > adhering to your email polcy?
> >
> > -Robert Heinich
> >   Eno Commons Cohousing Neighborhood
> >   www.enocommons.org
> >   Durham, NC
> >   where Tuesday is another rehearsal for our EnoWeen's Peter Pan 
> > Operetta
>
>
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