Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Sharon Villines (sharonsharonvillines.com) | |
Date: Fri, 22 Jan 2016 07:24:14 -0800 (PST) |
> On Jan 22, 2016, at 7:29 AM, R Philip Dowds <rpdowds [at] comcast.net> wrote: > > > I am thinking that managing conflict in cohousing is like brushing your > teeth: It’s something you must do on a regular basis, and you’re never done. > Ever. But if you stop doing it … things get pretty unpleasant, pretty fast. I wonder if Daniel Pink’s approach would work. Make a game of finding and discussing conflicts. Rewards for finding conflicts rather than rewards for ignoring it so it will disappear. Taking the conflict seriously — not demeaning it — but some joy in resolving it rather than joy in there being no conflict. "If you haven’t said something that bothers someone, you haven’t said anything." Sharon ---- Sharon Villines Takoma Village Cohousing, Washington DC http://www.takomavillage.org
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- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Kay Wilson, January 21 2016
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Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 21 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Richart Keller, January 21 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? R Philip Dowds, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Sharon Villines, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? R Philip Dowds, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 22 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? R Philip Dowds, January 23 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Jerry McIntire, January 23 2016
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