Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Lynn Nadeau / Maraiah (welcomeolympus.net) | |
Date: Fri, 22 Jan 2016 09:52:15 -0800 (PST) |
I would add Differences in how to respond to adversarial behavior. It can happen that a member refuses to play by the rules, to willingly pay their share, to respect community decisions and policies. They may even threaten, or initiate, legal action against the community or individual members. Everyone is willing to make initial efforts to mediate, to build bridges, to try to resolve conflicts. But at some point, an individual's aggressive words or deeds surpass some people's tolerance levels, and in effect they give up on resolving it, withdrawing from contact with the dissident member. These people can then feel negative towards those who keep trying to fix the situation. Might we call this the 'tough love' issue? Maraiah Lynn Nadeau RoseWind Cohousing, Port Townsend WA
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