Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Mary Baker, Solid Communications (marysolid-communications.com) | |
Date: Mon, 25 Jan 2016 10:06:01 -0800 (PST) |
I agree with your comments on the positive aspects of management. I think where we differ is on the definition of conflict. >>But how can conflict not be healthy? It arises when one person >>wants/believes/needs this and another wants/believes/needs that. If there >>were not conflict, there would be no health. No diversity. No questioning. >>Only adapting and conforming. I do believe that learning to resolve conflict can be healthy and empowering, and I discuss that at the beginning of the workbook, but developing new strengths and skills still does not make a toxic situation healthy. Generally, when I’m talking about conflict, I am not referring to dissension, objection, protesting, doubt, withholding, pouting or even the occasional prima donna temper tantrum. If you look at the definition of conflict in Merriam-Webster, you’ll see words like war, battle, struggle for power, aggression, antagonism, anger, dramatic action. But I also spend some time talking about boundaries and how even some simple things like having a family member never really listen to you can, over time, become a draining emotional burden. So it isn’t really the size and the scope that matters, it’s the fact that it’s a situation that has become in some way toxic. Mary
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any?, (continued)
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 24 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Sharon Villines, January 24 2016
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- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 24 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Sharon Villines, January 25 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 25 2016
- Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? Tom Smyth, January 25 2016
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