Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: ROMANTICIZING COHOUSING

[Deb Smyre (dsmyre]

At 11:25 AM 10/24/1999 -0500, paul kilduff wrote:
>
>>On Fri, 22 Oct 1999 14:20:01 -0500 Deb Smyre wrote:
>>      No one has to agree with our lifestyle choices.
>>      If we believe in our love strongly enough, we'll endure
>>      whatever life dumps on us and persevere.  If the approval
>>      of others is important to our happiness, then we should
>>      choose accordingly and not whine.  >
>>       Deb <interracially married...not a whiner> Smyre
>>
>Good for you, and I guess that's fair, except you didn't "disapprove" of 
>them; I think you told them they couldn't live in your community.

        Paul, what I actually wrote was:
        >It's an alternative lifestyle that can be destructive to relationships 
        >in the long term, and I wouldn't choose to live in a cohousing 
        >community that supported it.

        Deb