Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: Breaching interpersonal boundaries

[Hans Tilstra (tilstra]

Rob wrote > I could not disagree more that unhealthy personal boundaries are
more likely in communes. In my work, which >takes me to all kinds of
communities doing relationship and decision making work I see almost the
opposite. I see cohousing >groups most often have the most dysfunctional
problems around personal boundaries, mainly in the form of not acknowleging
>and talking about them as group work.

I made the original comparison with families rather than cohousing groups (I
say somewhat defensively).

So, whilst I'm moderately interested in the comparison of communes vs.
cohousing,

I'm really interested in your observations regarding the comparison of
cohousing vs. families.

:-) Hans
tilstra [at] smartchat.net.au


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