Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: disruptive members/behavior

[Elizabeth Stevenson (tamgoddess]

eople
> who have to confront someone who is loudly angry or subtly cruel. You can
> become a lightening rod for the community; rather than fixing the problem,
> it gets focused on you. "You shouldn't be so sensitive" or "don't take it
> personally" get used a lot in other situations I've seen, though that sort
> of thing hasn't happened here in years.
> 
> -- 
> Liz Stevenson
> Southside Park Cohousing
> Sacramento, California
> tamgoddess [at] attbi.com
Sorry, I just wanted to clarify the last thing I said. It doesn't mean that
we don't have an occasional voice raised or something inappropriate said. I
meant that there isn't any blaming the victim. We have good meetings, though
we're all still quite human. ;o)

Liz

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