Re: Romance and Sex in CoHousing | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: David G Adams (dadamsworld.std.com) | |
Date: Tue, 13 Dec 94 20:46 CST |
Joaniblank asked about sexuality / nudity / romance... Let's see... We at Cornerstone haven't moved in, of course, but here's what's happened on these subjects to date... One of the early full members has formed an on again, off again relationship with one of our consultants (who is also a member now). There was some early gossip and giggling, but no one has ever expressed concern about the relationship as far as I know. They seem pretty set on each buying a unit, which is good for our membership goals. [Sorry if that wasn't disguised enough. People who know us at all probably know who I'm talking about since we only have one consultant / full member.] We have actually decided on a hot tub! (I hope in the green house). The architect envisioned a very secluded spot with its own changing rooms. When several members said it didn't need these, the architect said "what about changing out of your wet bathing suits?" There were several mock-puzzled "What bathing suits?" replies. We will probably end up having Nude warning signs or Nude hours, but we haven't worked that out. In my college co-op, couples would sometimes commandeer a tub or stall for a co-ed shower, and just put a sign on the door. No problem as long as you didn't do this at peak time periods. We also had a roofdeck, and would put up "Warning: nude sunbathers" signs on the ladder to the deck. Sexual activity on the deck was frowned upon. Nudity had to be tolerated unless folks already on the deck objected. There are a couple of lesbian singles or couples in Cornerstone (one couple with a baby on the way any day now; already overdue). The only time I've heard that raised as an issue was at an orientation two weeks ago when a prospect who was suffering from some sort of psychosis and / or neurosis asked me point-blank "I hope you don't have any homosexuals in the group. They're a menace to society". It came as a complete shock to me, because it had never been brought up as an issue except as "well, it would be nice if we had some gay / bi / lesbian members so that we could feel good about our diversity." Dave Adams Cornerstone ______________________________________________ |\/\/\/| David G. Adams |____ | U4 Consulting OO ) | Arlington, MA ( | dadams [at] world.std.com | | CompuServe: 72630,1374 ______________________________________________
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Romance and Sex in CoHousing Joaniblank, December 13 1994
- Re: Romance and Sex in CoHousing Fred H Olson WB0YQM, December 13 1994
- RE: Romance and Sex in CoHousing Rob Sandelin, December 13 1994
- Re: Romance and Sex in CoHousing David G Adams, December 13 1994
- Re: Romance and Sex in CoHousing Stuart Staniford-Chen, December 13 1994
- Re: Romance and Sex in CoHousing Catherine Kehl, December 14 1994
- Re: Romance and Sex in Cohousing Eric Hart, December 22 1994
- Re: Romance and Sex in Cohousing Loren Davidson, December 27 1994
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