Re: divorce in cohousing | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Doug Huston (hustonashlandcoho.com) | |
Date: Tue, 11 Feb 2014 07:20:59 -0800 (PST) |
That is correct. - Doug On Feb 11, 2014, at 12:42 AM, regine <chknsoup1 [at] aol.com> wrote: > > I assume the person in Ashland cohousing who is no longer a member of the > community as a result of a divorce would no longer be an owner of the unit > otherwise it seems like legally they would retain their right to decision > making and the like. Regine Wilson, Nevada City cohousing > > Sent from AOL Mobile Mail > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Elizabeth Magill <pastorlizm [at] gmail.com> > To: Cohousing-L <cohousing-l [at] cohousing.org> > Sent: Mon, Feb 10, 2014 06:42 PM > Subject: Re: [C-L]_ divorce in cohousing > > > > <div id="AOLMsgPart_1_956c2e77-4669-4a49-855c-52e96e3df7a5" style="margin: > 0px;font-family: Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, Sans-Serif;font-size: 12px;color: > #000;background-color: #fff;"> > > <pre style="font-size: 9pt;"><tt> > wow! at five years old I feel our community is too young to have a strong > opinion. > > but we've had two divorces where all parties still own homes here, and live > here, and as we head into a third divorce in process many people are working > hard to help one member to find a rental so they can stay. > > I don't know if we are setting ourselves up for more challenges (we've > certainly had some) but I also can't imagine telling the parent of a child > living here that the parent can't be a member. > > -Liz > (The Rev.) Elizabeth M. Magill > <a href="http://www.worcesterfellowship.org" > target="_blank">www.worcesterfellowship.org</a> > <a href="http://www.mosaic-commons.org" > target="_blank">www.mosaic-commons.org</a> > 508-450-0431 > > > > > On Feb 10, 2014, at 9:06 PM, Doug Huston <<a href="mailto:huston [at] > ashlandcoho.com">huston [at] ashlandcoho.com</a>> wrote: > >> >> At times I’ve read on this list serve how stressful break-ups/divorces have >> been on communities. >> In our community, we are considering the following proposal: >> When a couple breaks up, the person who moves out of the community is >> automatically no longer a member of the community. >> This means he/she cannot be an off-site member, a category which exist for >> some communities. >> This would be the default situation. Exceptions could be considered. If >> after one year the member who moved out wants to re-join, the group could >> choose to consider this - or not. >> The intention behind this is to insulate the community (to some extent) from >> the common challenges, stress, and tensions which usually accompany >> break-ups, and would likely be heightened if both parties remain formally >> involved in community activities. >> We are wondering what others in communities think, and if there are similar >> or related policies regarding break-ups elsewhere in cohousing. >> Thanks for your comments in advance. >> >> Doug Huston - Ashland (Oregon) Cohousing Community >> _________________________________________________________________ >> Cohousing-L mailing list -- Unsubscribe, archives and other info at: >> <a href="http://www.cohousing.org/cohousing-L/" >> target="_blank">http://www.cohousing.org/cohousing-L/</a> >> >> > > _________________________________________________________________ > Cohousing-L mailing list -- Unsubscribe, archives and other info at: > <a href="http://www.cohousing.org/cohousing-L/" > target="_blank">http://www.cohousing.org/cohousing-L/</a> > > > </tt></pre> > </div> <!-- end of AOLMsgPart_1_956c2e77-4669-4a49-855c-52e96e3df7a5 --> > _________________________________________________________________ > Cohousing-L mailing list -- Unsubscribe, archives and other info at: > http://www.cohousing.org/cohousing-L/ > >
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divorce in cohousing Doug Huston, February 10 2014
- Re: divorce in cohousing Sharon Villines, February 10 2014
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Re: divorce in cohousing Elizabeth Magill, February 10 2014
- Re: divorce in cohousing regine, February 11 2014
- Re: divorce in cohousing Doug Huston, February 11 2014
- Re: divorce in cohousing Catya Belfer, February 11 2014
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divorce in cohousing Doug Huston, February 10 2014
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Re: divorce in cohousing Diana Carroll, February 10 2014
- Re: divorce in cohousing Joanie Connors, February 12 2014
- Conflict Resolution [was: divorce in cohousing Sharon Villines, February 12 2014
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