Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: Bullying

[Kathleen Lowry (kathleenlowrylpcclmft]

Alfred Adler said “To be human is to feel inferior. “ we have a variety of 
coping strategies. He also said “There is harmony only among equals.” :)

> On Aug 6, 2022, at 10:22 PM, Brian Bartholomew via Cohousing-L <cohousing-l 
> [at] cohousing.org> wrote:
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>  | which I call the With Enough Hugs Fallacy.
> | what I call the With Enough NVC Fallacy.
> 
>> What finally worked was teaching my daughter to shove me up against
>> a wall -she never actually had to do it to the bully-and the
>> bullying stopped. My daughter needed permission and skills to change
>> her energy I guess.
> 
> Darwinism says that any strategy for gaining personal advantage that
> works will be found and used. In response, part of being a decent
> person is having decent boundaries.
> 
> Brian  
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