Cohousing-L Mailing List: Re: Bullying

[Brian Bartholomew (bartholomew.brian]

 | which I call the With Enough Hugs Fallacy.
| what I call the With Enough NVC Fallacy.

> What finally worked was teaching my daughter to shove me up against
> a wall -she never actually had to do it to the bully-and the
> bullying stopped. My daughter needed permission and skills to change
> her energy I guess.

Darwinism says that any strategy for gaining personal advantage that
works will be found and used. In response, part of being a decent
person is having decent boundaries.

Brian