Re: Community Information [ was Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any?} Refuses to play by the rules | <– Date –> <– Thread –> |
From: Mary Baker, Solid Communications (marysolid-communications.com) | |
Date: Fri, 22 Jan 2016 12:21:38 -0800 (PST) |
I should probably clarify, I am not being critical. In fact, I agree that it can be difficult to pursue conflict resolution when others would just as soon wave it off. And if you do strive to reconcile the difference, then you’re pegged as a sympathizer, instead of a reconciler. -Mary ================================================================= Re: Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any? <– Date –> <– Thread –> From: Lynn Nadeau / Maraiah (welcomeolympus.net) Date: Fri, 22 Jan 2016 09:52:15 -0800 (PST) I would add Differences in how to respond to adversarial behavior. It can happen that a member refuses to play by the rules, to willingly pay their share, to respect community decisions and policies. They may even threaten, or initiate, legal action against the community or individual members. Everyone is willing to make initial efforts to mediate, to build bridges, to try to resolve conflicts. But at some point, an individual's aggressive words or deeds surpass some people's tolerance levels, and in effect they give up on resolving it, withdrawing from contact with the dissident member. These people can then feel negative towards those who keep trying to fix the situation. Might we call this the 'tough love' issue? Maraiah Lynn Nadeau RoseWind Cohousing, Port Townsend WA
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- Re: Community Information [ was Types of conflict in cohousing -- did I miss any?} Refuses to play by the rules Mary Baker, Solid Communications, January 22 2016
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